I thought to write this post due to a posted question I saw in a forum. A woman has asked from the forum about a spyware that she can detect and record her husband’s internet usage including recording of all his chats, blog posts and forum discussions. She asked for a spyware which can do all the above mentioned things. The reason is that she knows that her husband chat with his ex girl friends and new girls.

It is not possible and required to put rules on anyone’s internet usage. But the person who uses his or her freedom to surf the internet must be aware of the things that he/she should do and he/she shouldn’t do. Otherwise you will get into trouble with rising personal problems from your family, girl friend or boy friend. As the world has many cultures, the way someone sees the usage of the internet differs from another one. Therefore no one can argue on these kinds of stuffs related to the internet. The only one who can realize and use the internet which will not affect your personal lifestyle is you. You have to decide on what you should do and what you shouldn’t do.

Whenever you use a chat service, a forum, a blog or any other service related to the internet, think twice whether this will affect your personal life. If you are married or having a relationship with a girl/boy friend, it is better if you can have an understanding about your partner’s feelings and the way he/she thinks. And make sure that he/she knows your feelings and the way you think also. By doing this, I personally feel that you will be able to reduce the problems arising with your internet usage.